March 20th to April 20th is called the time of Aries. Being the first astrological sign in the zodiac series, Aries is associated with being courageous, competitive, honest, driven, generous, etc. Red is their color and a sign of just how passionate they are. Aries is the first fire sign, the other being Leo and Sagittarius.
An Aries man in love will love his partner wholeheartedly and passionately. They will go to any lengths to make them feel special and loved. These men are the perfect mix of an undisciplined child and a fearless warrior.
While Aries men are considered strong, bold, competitive, strong-willed, and ambitious, they can also come off as mysterious as they tend to test people close to them for their loyalty and various traits.
Aries men usually go to great lengths for their loved ones and pursue that relationship passionately, but once that passion dies, there is no turning back for them. They might lose interest in you forever, and telling them otherwise will be quite tough.
You might feel confused if you are in a relationship with an Aries man. You know he loves you, but sometimes he feels distant and does not trust you; you might feel as if he is testing you.
Although, if an Aries man is testing you, you must feel special as he is testing a potential relationship with you. If you feel like this, read ahead, and you might get an answer to your doubts-
1. He will Annoy You
Aries men love to annoy their loved ones and test their patience. Sometimes they will deliberately do things they know will make you angry; they do these things to test your patience.
They want to see if you are flexible enough to take a joke. It’s just their pleasant nature. It does not mean that they do not love you.
2. He will Take You on Adventures
Being the first one of the fire signs and the youngest, Aries men are bold, courageous, and love to go on adventures. Similarly, they want someone in their life who will share the same passion as them, and hence, they will often want to take you on adventures to see if you are up to them.
Please do not say no to everything they suggest. While you may not be the one who loves it, try to do some things which they enjoy. It will build trust between you two and strengthen your relationship.
3. He will Test How Independent You are
Aries men are quite independent and strong-willed; therefore, they want someone who feels confident. Thus, he will often test you to see how independent you are. While they do not shy away from showing their love for you, they still want you to have your own life and identity apart from theirs.
They love nothing more than confident women who live their life to the fullest and are independent in all ways. They do not have a problem being a knight in shining armor but do not want a damsel in distress in their life.
4. He will Check if You have been Attentive
Aries men are quite self-centric; thus, you will often find them talking about themselves. He will talk about his passion, dreams, happiness, and problems. Also, he will often test you and check if you have been listening. He might later ask you some questions, with which he will see if you were attentive.
Although it is always nice and considered good manners to be attentive when someone talks, you might have to be extra cautious near an Aries man.
5. He will Make You Angry on Purpose
Aries men are known to annoy their partners and often make you angry on purpose. They will deliberately do things that will make you furious to check how patient and calm you are.
It is just your test; you must be calm in such a situation and not let that get to you. You have passed the test if you can take a joke as a joke.
6. He will Test You to See Whether You Admire Him or Not
Aries men are full of themselves, and they are confident and smart. If you are in a relationship with an Aries man, he will expect you to think that you are the luckiest person in the world to have a person like him.
They will expect you to put him before anyone else and admire them for all their qualities. If you make him feel special and love him unconditionally, you will get the same. Otherwise, they might start to lose interest pretty soon.
These men are known to get bored easily and crave excitement in life. Hence, if you want to these men to love you, you must keep them on their toes, always.
7. He will Test Your Willpower
Aries men are known to test your metal and will test you to see how easily you give up on things. These people have strong willpower, so they want someone who is strong-willed too.
They will not want you to give up so easily on life and will want you to fight whatever life throws at you.
8. He will Test Your Trust and Loyalty
An Aries man is loyal and will want his partner to be loyal. They will not trust you easily and often test you for your loyalty. It does not necessarily mean they do not trust you; it just means they want to be sure of the person they are with.
9. He will Test You to See if You Give Him Enough Personal Space
Aries men love to be independent, even if they are in a relationship. They will make plans independent of you, with your friends and family, and clingy hate partners. They value their independence too much and would want to spend their life with someone who feels the same way.
Sometimes, they might make plans without telling you and go off-grid without telling you to see your reaction. The best way to be with such men is to live your life to the fullest and make plans independent of them.
10. He will Ask You for Your Assistance
Although Aries men are independent and capable enough to care for themselves, they will often ask you for your help and test you to see if you will help them. They see whether you will stand by him in tough times; they test you to see if they can rely on you.
Everyone needs someone as a partner we can rely on in tough times, and there is no shame in wanting a comforting shoulder to rely on when going gets tough.
11. He will Test You to See How Compatible You Both are
If you have to spend your life with someone, it is better to know beforehand if you are compatible with them. While it may be true for almost all humans, it is truer in the case of Aries men. They will put you through various tests to check if you are on the same page with everything.
If he sees you as a potential life partner, he will ask you various questions to see what you have planned for the future. If your dreams and ambitions do not align, he might lose interest in you. They do not like wasting their time and often test you on matters concerning future plans.
12. He will Test Your Limits
An Aries man is known to push your limits. They are adventurous and ambitious and hence, want someone who is not afraid of trying new things. These men are very active and believe in staying fit; hence, they often push you to your limits.
They will engage you in adventurous sports and activities, and while you may not always enjoy them, you have to participate in a few of them to make them feel engaged.
An Aries man cannot be with someone too afraid of taking risks; they are wild and free men and loves people with the same determination as them. If a life full of adventures and risks is not for you, you might be wasting your time.
13. He will Test You to See If You are Equal to Them
An Aries man desires someone equal to them in all aspects. They are perfectionists and expect nothing less from their partners. If an Aries man keeps testing you, although it might feel frustrating, know that they are interested in you, and they will stop playing the mind games when they are sure of you.
Once they are comfortable with you, they will give you their hundred percent unconditional love and attention.
14. He Checks If You Can Handle Conflicts
Conflicts are inevitable in every relationship. Every couple goes through a phase where they have arguments and do not agree on everything. Aries men will test you to see how well you can handle such conflicts. He will often confront you and sometimes even make you angry on purpose to see your reaction to it.
You have passed the test if you can keep your head calm in heated arguments. They might start imagining a future with you. This test also checks how easily you give up on the relationship. If holding on to a relationship is more important to you than the fight, you might have just won his heart.
15. He will Make You Jealous and See How You React to His Jealousy
Aries men will often do things on purpose to make you feel jealous and insecure. They may not mean anything by it, and it might just be their way of testing your reaction. Jealousy is an important factor when testing how good the relationship will be.
If you consider someone as your potential life partner, it is very important to see how they react to being jealous. Aries men are known to provoke such situations, which might get a reaction from you.
If your Aries men show signs of jealousy, it is better to be understanding and stay calm. Please do not overreact and try to understand them. Explain to them calmly that what they feel is understandable but unnecessary. Please do everything you can to make them feel secure. It might be a tough situation, but your relationship will only grow stronger if you do it calmly.
Now that you know various ways an Aries man might test you, you can plan things accordingly if you want to be with one. It might feel frustrating to people if they are tested all the time. Many of us might also feel like we are not trusted enough, but it is just a phase for these men. Once these men are sure of their partner, they love and trust you unconditionally. They open up to you beautifully and rely on you completely.
After you have passed the test, Aries can be the most trustworthy and loving partner one can get; they believe in being gentlemen and will not shy away from introducing you to their friends and family. He will leave no stone unturned to make you feel special and loved. These men might come off as aloof and distant at times, but it is just their way of ensuring they do not get hurt. You will pass the Aries test if you are honest with your true self and not afraid to stand for what you believe in.
Some Famous Aries Men
Listed below are prominent and famous Aries men whom all of us know.
- Robert Downey jr.
- Jackie Chan
- Elton John
- Vincent van Gogh
- Akon
- Robert Frost
- Leonardo da Vinci
Aries men are most compatible with Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius, and Aquarius, but nothing will matter if you are meant to be. You will figure it out somehow.